We'll Get There

What to do when your friend's man does not like you. When he thinks you are trash, or a cheater/liar?

For starters you don't have to give one good gosh darn what anyone thinks about you. Words are just meant to alter reality. They are not knives or guns they do not actually hurt anything other than your mind. And because we change our minds all the time we can change the way the words effect us. When you tell me that your boy thinks I am a cheat/liar I listen and think about how the words apply to me? Then I think about just how well the person knows me. Are the words powerful? Are the words applicable? Then I take a deeper look and wonder is this person just projecting to cover up for their own inadequacies? Typically its the latter but without altering your mind's eye on this viewpoint you typically miss the mark.

I am a specialist of the "sticks and stones" game. I digest words and projectile vomit them back as I see fit and at just the right moment....when you least expect it. I retain what you tell me and then my mind decides if they are work digesting or just evacuating. Talking shit about someone is just that....shit! Its waste....it does not provide the body anything necessary...so the best thing to do with verbal diarrhea is to let it evacuate itself from your head.

So getting back to this friend who has to deal with the "potty mouth." Its all on you girl....is this what you want from life. Remember friends are ancillary parts of your body and soul. Without them you feel lost. If your loved one is talking smack about your body and your soul.....is that healthy for you?

My suggestion.....line up the ducks.....jump out the window...its always open. As is my door....and some other hot shit chick we know!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Men are DOGS!