Slow Handed Lover

Those that say that sex is an insignificant portion of a relationship have not met Mimi. Sweet endearing Mimi would beg to differ. To her intimacy is an integral part of a relationship. As I sit in this terribly uncomfortable chair thinking about my own pathetic and dull encounters listening to Jazz complements of Temple University I can't help but ponder if....then when?

I have so many accomplices I tool around with and they all suffer from the same anxiety. When the hell should you bed a man? To be perfectly honest there is no definitive answer to the question. Because let's face it....sex and all the accouterments that accompany it are terribly important to a relationship's longevity. Its nothing to do with the female rather the male interpretation of events. See a woman can easily jump right in and get what they want no angle. We need and want to be with our "friend" post haste. However its not entirely certain when the timing is right because we have too many thoughts and emotions hovering about our gilded little halos. Typically the number one concern is whether or not the person we decide to fornicate with is in-fact going to provide repeat business? I would not deny that the feelings are almost immediate with a guy that you are into. There is no question that from day one we are prepared; proper lingerie, all areas free from fuzz and any pheromone we can exude working overtime. We use hand signals, visual aids if need be to get the job done. But then what we are left with is often times puzzling. Like after you do the freak nasty with this guy is he going to call you again? One date, ten dates you can never be sure when the timing is right. Therefore it almost becomes a touch and go situation. And you simply must be stealth at reading the signals.

1)Is he sitting close to you, making every valiant attempt to touch you, place his arm around, feel the back of your hand against his and showering you with gentle kisses and even the possible PDA?

2)Or is he giving you the nonchalant looks of a hungry man about to murder an innocent doe in the forest with little more than a rusty arrow and shoddy bow?

Question? Are you just standing there frozen at the thought of which way the night is going or are you feeling the usual temperature/moisture increase in all the right places? TMI? Perhaps but for effect it will be necessary to diagnose the situation with as many details as possible.

Either option one or two are the typical scenarios. They may not entirely play out as directly as I have explained however in essence of time and the fact that the kind of girl that reads this knows just what I am talking about its important to understand you can get yourself into a pickle or out of one with simple recognition.

So better to wait until you see scenario 1 before jumping the fence' I concur! Ladies take notes....you do not want to miss this one.

Is it better to be a slow handed lover than a jackrabbit? Absolutely as you well know the turtle took his time and did it right and wins the race EVERY TIME. Not to mention that slow and steady always pays off for us....you can say~